What is very important here?

It is important to take a step from territory into the space, because we are used to everything that is ON. ON the table, ON the floor … There is lovely sofa ON the floor. We are going to sit ON the chair. There is a table ON the floor, TV is ON the table. And we continually move the things ON.

It is necessary to pass through – into the new world. INTO the space. We are leaving the flat, where everything was ON and we enter back INTO the space. INTO the space of the flat, INTO the space of the house where we live, INTO the space of the work, INTO the space of the car, INTO the space of the city.

The next step that is important to take is to be in a dialogue. Know how to make the agreement.

What does DFS offer to us? At first, the equality of the participating parties during the dialogue is very important. Second, in alive dialogue is important to find the third one. Something, that is significant and objectively existing for all participants. And only when the third one exists – as shared umbrella – the free and open dialogue can start.

Other moment essential for the dialogue is the resonance.

What kind of the mysterious substance is it?

It is a technical name of the psychological term empathy. The ability to feel the emotional balance of the other human without words and explanations through inner experience.

Children can do this very well. The mother is upset - the child is crying. There is piece and at home – satisfied and happy child is playing with its toys.